Inspired By and a Confusing Man

Lately, I’ve been linking up with Kym at A Fresh Cup of Coffee for her year long series of Twenty-Six Lists. This week’s “Historical Figures” prompted me to write about a confusing man. Kym’s lists range from Goals and Accomplishments (seen here) to things like “Lucky Days,” “Music on Your Playlist,” and “Blog Reading List.” I decided to combine fashion posts with the list posts. But, since I’m now part of the Style Imitating Art curators, I think my 26 list post will be just a list. If you’re a fan of lists, head over to Kym’s blog and click on Twenty Six Lists. If you scroll down to the bottom of the post, you will find the entire list so you can be prepared.

A truly confusing man…

Recently, Nigel and I watched a documentary about Thomas Jefferson. I knew he was the primary author of the Declaration of Independence, had red hair, and was the third President of the United States. Beyond that, I really didn’t know much. The documentary I linked is by Ken Burns so I’m confident it’s a pretty spot-on portrayal of one of our Founding Fathers. Jefferson was born on his family’s plantation, Shadwell, on April 13, 1743. If you do the math, you’ll discover he was only 32 years old when the Second Continental Congress convened in 1775. Between June 11th and 28th, 1776, Jefferson wrote the Declaration of Independence. He was heavily influenced by the writings of John Locke and the Enlightenment. This is the man who wrote:

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”

And, yet…

Thomas Jefferson owned over 600 human beings in the course of his life. Given the words he wrote in the Declaration of Independence, one would wonder how he could feel it was right to take away the “liberty” of another man. Jefferson didn’t consider black people to be equal to white people. You can read his own words on the matter here. By 1808, importing slaves was illegal. Jefferson, as well as other slaveholders, had the answer to that. They relied on their female slaves to provide the next generations of enslaved people. “‘I consider a woman who brings a child every two years as more profitable than the best man of the farm,’ Jefferson remarked in 1820.  ‘What she produces is an addition to the capital, while his labors disappear in mere consumption (source).'”  It’s interesting to note Jefferson most likely fathered several children with his slave, Sally Hemings. Jefferson freed ten people out of the over 600 slaves he owned over the course of his life. Sally was not one of them; however, some of her sons and other relatives were. You can read more about Jefferson and slavery here.

A little more…

Equally controversial were Jefferson’s statements on religious freedom. In Query XVII: “”Religion,’ he defended a separation of church and state, arguing that ‘it does me no injury for my neighbour to say there are twenty gods, or no god. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg.'” Most experts consider Jefferson a theist rather than a Christian. He believed in a higher power but not necessarily in the resurrection of Christ nor the trinity. It would seem Jefferson did believe in a stricter sense of church and state separation than many do today.

A confusing man…

Thomas Jefferson was definitely a confusing and contradictory man. It is so easy to say, “Well, that’s the way things were back then.” Jefferson was really only agreeing with the prevalent thoughts of the enlightened minds in Europe. Does that make it right, though? And, do we hold these men to a higher standard than others? I think it’s time to look at US history without those rose-colored glasses and recognize the past was filled with amazingly brave moments and people as well as inescapably horrid events. I think I would have to say Jefferson was a product of his times, an extremely intelligent man who understood the evils of slavery but was able to reason away the inhumane treatment of another human being by reducing them to non-humanity. Jefferson was a genius with his hands yet could never quite get a handle on his own expenses. Jefferson was, indeed, an enigma wrapped in a conundrum.

Inspired by…

I promise this wasn’t clickbait! Last week, Sally, from Within a World of My Own, put together an almost all black look. I decided to use her outfit as a jumping off point for this outfit. I don’t usually or consciously create looks based on another blogger’s outfit. But, something about Sally’s challenged me to come up with an outfit similar in theme to hers. While Sally went “long over lean,” I decided to go “long over flowy.” I know that’s the opposite of what you’re supposed to do, but I really like going against the rules with flowy pants! I shall wear what I want! In today’s look, I’m wearing the Signature Side Slit Ankle pant and the Side Ruched Cap Sleeve top (both by Clara Sunwoo). I love the ankle length because they are usually regular length on me. Over the top of this, I added a long merino wool cardigan by J Jill. I actually pulled this out of my donation pile for this photo shoot.

These ankle length pants are just a bit shorter than ankle pants usually are on me. That meant I had to find some flatter shoes or boots. I wanted to stay with the all black theme. I tried a couple of other shoes/mules. They weren’t quite what I wanted. Then, my L’Artiste Rodeha boots raised their toes and said, “Hey, what about me?” They were the perfect choice. Rather than using a scarf, I decided to just go over the top with different necklaces that sparkled and broke up the all black expanse of my outfit. The two pearl necklaces are from Stella & Dot. The long sparkly one is from Banana Republic. The two sparkly bracelets are from Premier Designs, and the cuff is from Kendra Scott as are the earrings. The only new items are the earrings purchased after Christmas during the buy more, save more sale.

Wrap it up, Marsha!

I honestly should have started this off with my look, right? It’s a little disappointing when you discover your “heroes” are, in fact, human after all. While I don’t consider Thomas Jefferson a personal hero, I do believe he played a pivotal and important role in the creation of the United States. So, can we talk? Do you believe the past should be accepted as it was? Or, do you believe we should look beyond the accepted beliefs to the sometimes ugly truths that could be there? And, what do we do with those ugly truths? Please leave me a comment, or two, and we can talk. I promise to respond as soon as possible.

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17 Comments

  1. I love your all black outfit and long over flowy looks great on you! I tend to wear long with flowy too. When I started homeschooling my boys I started reading more in depth books about history and all those historical figures our schools tend to treat as heroes– Washington, Jefferson, Lincoln etc. and I taught my boys both sides of the stories (like Lincoln only freed the slaves to stop the civil war; not because he actually wanted to free them and he really didn’t want to give up his own!). I often wonder what our history books would write about the presidents we’ve had these past few years…

    • Thanks, Joanne! I tried to get across to my students that our “heroes” were human beings, too. But, I didn’t necessarily have as much information then as I do now. We taught the Civil War, and I always stressed it was as much about the economic difference between the North and the South as it was about slavery. I think we impressed upon them the evils of slavery by showing them some of the real photos that were available during that time. They were shocked. Now, do they remember that? I hope they remember the ideas behind the evils of slavery at the very least.

      Thanks, again, Joanne!

  2. It sure is a let down when we realize how human those we held up high really are – ugh. Thanks for sharing all of this about Jefferson, always the educator Marsha, you did a great job!
    I really like the black outfit and silver jewelry – stunning!
    xo,
    Kellyann

    • Thank you, Kellyann! I feel especially some kind of way…I don’t even have the right words to describe it…because I taught Indiana History with a touch of US History as it applied to Indiana’s history. And, I didn’t think to use the internet to research people and events as thoroughly as I could have. Of course, time was always an issue…as you well know.

      Thank you so much for the compliments.

  3. I couldn’t agree more of your assessment of Thomas Jefferson! There is no need to cancel him but we do need to be honest about some of the wrongs he let happen. Love this all black look!

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    • Thank you, Kathrine. I agree with the whole “no need to cancel” idea. I wish we, as a nation, could see these men as the human beings they were and not the “gods” they seem to have become.

  4. Very elegant! Always love how Clara Sunwoo pieces flow! And you know I love inspired by outfits!
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  5. Beautiful and classic outfit! It looks fairly comfortable too! I love Clara Sunwoo pieces! They feel so nice on!

  6. Thanks for the mention, and I’m so happy to see your rendition of the black column. This “long over flowy” look with the wonderful layered necklaces looks terrific! The boots are perfect. Interesting discussion of Thomas Jefferson, a brilliant but flawed man with a lot of contradictions that are obvious to us today. It’s so strange to consider that when he lived, the part that was the most controversial was not his support of slavery (which was widespread) but his ideas around any group of people having rights not derived from the government/king. Well, and his religious freedom ideas, which would be viewed skeptically by a lot of Americans today (sadly).

    • You are so welcome, Sally! I honestly didn’t intend to do a black look so soon. But, I also knew, if I didn’t, I’d completely forget to do it! I’m glad you liked it!

      You are so much more articulate when talking about Jefferson. I think I was still “in the moment” having just finished watching the documentary. I was rather astounded at some of his words. It was interesting to learn how some of his views changed re: kings/monarchy after the French Revolution. He truly wanted his cake and to eat it, too (no pun intended). I do believe most people in this country truly don’t understand what the Founding Fathers were about with the need for a separation of church and state. Sadly, religion seems to be taking a front seat at the theater that is American politics these days.

      Thanks, Sally!

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  8. I think we need to be careful to judge historical figures soberly but perhaps not too harshly, if that makes sense. After all, even though we have their writings in some cases, they are no longer here to defend or explain themselves. It’s a genuine puzzle to me how Jefferson or anyone of his time period could pledge their lives and fortunes to the idea that “all men are created equal” but justify the practice of keeping slaves or of not allowing women to enjoy equal rights. I wonder, too, how much of a role pragmatism played in these types of conundrums, as I’m sure it often plays a role today, as we find it more challenging to live out our deeply held beliefs than to talk about what we believe. Hmmm. History is full of heroes who were also deeply flawed and made horrible mistakes, and of genuinely awful people who still somehow managed to do some good things. Thanks for linking up this very thought-provoking post with Twenty-Six Lists!

    • Thanks, Kym! You’ve brought up several points I thought about myself. I think we have to judge them based upon their own historical context, yet we can’t ignore their actions in the context of today. Jefferson understood the horrors of slavery yet employed overseers who beat his slaves. His relationship with Sally Hemings is another example. No one knows, for sure, if it was a consensual relationship. My guess is it was consensual with the view that what choice did she really have. She consented because it was expedient for her and her family. I don’t know…it could have been a love match. I guess we will never know. I do hope you’ll have a chance to watch the documentary because I think it paints a picture of a Jefferson who was very much of his time, very much flawed, and yet very much a humanist. I always have this question in the back of my mind about Hitler…talking about genuinely awful people. Did he seek redemption in his last moments? Was grace granted to him even as he died? Will I see him in Heaven? Thank you for hosting this truly enjoyable, often thought provoking, and comprehensive list!