A very warm weekend…
Boy howdy! It was warm here in Central Indiana this weekend. Of course, that was the weekend my oldest son and I laid down bag after bag of mulch. We had curbing put in around the house a week or so ago. I was so tired of the mowers blowing the mulch into the yard, and then Jack would eat it. While my preference would have been flagstone, I have neither the budget nor the knees for that these days! So, Josh and I spread out close to 50 bags of that stinky stuff. In the old days, we would have just bought it in bulk, but we have yet to find a new place after the one we’d used for years closed.
Funny story…
At our house up north, we had over an acre of land. Over the years, Nigel and I planted more than 100 trees. Not all of them survived, of course, but there were probably 75 or so when we left. We also had a portion of the backyard fenced in for the dogs. Inside the fence we had planted a plethora of different bushes, perennials, and trees. I have mentioned my love of rocks before, right? Now, I content myself with creating cairns. But, we had some really big rocks up north.
A little more…
My very first teaching job was at the school where I’d been a student. We actually chose to build right across the road from the school so our kids could go there. We literally walked across the road (maybe 50-60 yards according to Nigel) to school. That school, as well as five others, were all township schools. That meant they were governed by a trustee elected by the people of the township. When all of those schools started requesting money from the state for various improvements, the state responded by saying we needed to consolidate into one corporation (or so I was told by the principal). So, my first job was actually under this new corporation rather than the old township system.
Still more…
In its infinite wisdom (yeah, that’s sarcasm), the school board decided to close this school along with several others and build a new middle school. Guess where that middle school was going? Yep, right across the road but far enough back that my youngest son couldn’t walk there. Actually, no one could walk or bike to the school. That was against the rules. But, back to rocks, right? During the years of construction, Nigel and I would walk over to the construction site. My objective was to find rocks. I think he just wanted to go for a walk. I was friends with the wife of one of the guys on the construction crew and asked her to ask him if I could have a big rock or two for my backyard. “Sure, he’ll bring it over in a loader for you.” That didn’t happen, and I didn’t want to bother her. As far as I was concerned, I had permission to get some new rocks for my backyard.
Even more…
Well, once I’d picked out the rock (Nigel called it a boulder), we had to figure out how we were going to get it home. There was no picking it up and putting it in the back of his truck. So, we had to come up with Plan B. Nigel had a garden tractor to mow the lawn. We figured that little tractor could pull it home if we could figure out some type of conveyance. It just so happened Nigel had a big piece of plywood in the garage. Off to the rock we went with the tractor, the plywood, and some rope. I think Nigel drove all that stuff down in the back of the truck, and I drove the garden tractor to the rock. We heaved, and we hoed, and we got that rock onto the plywood. Before we left our house (about 1/4 to 1/2 mile down the road), Nigel had rigged up something to tie the plywood to the tractor. We got the plywood attached to the tractor. Any guesses where this is going?
Give it a little gas…
We rolled the rock onto the plywood, and I got on the tractor and hit the gas. Nothing happened. I gave it a little more gas. The only thing that happened was the front end of the tractor raised up…that rock wasn’t going anywhere without a little more oomph! I’m sure people were driving by and wondering, “What on earth?” That didn’t stop me. Now, more than ever, I was determined (Nigel would call it stubborn) to get that rock in my backyard. He told me to hold on a bit, to let him get behind it, and give it a shove while I hit the gas. That was just the impetus that little old tractor needed. I happily drove my new treasure down the road. Nigel followed behind with his truck so no one would rear end me.
Finally…
When we got to our house, the next problem was getting it into the backyard. I honestly don’t remember what we did, but I’m pretty sure we used the plywood and continued to drag it into the backyard. I had already scouted out where that beautiful rock was going…under the canopies of the river birch, the magnolia, and the locust trees! Once we had it in place, Nigel laughed and showed me the plywood. I didn’t know at the time, but sparks had been flying as I’d driven that tractor down the road. In a very short amount of time, the friction of the road and the weight of the rock had worn a hole through the wood. The sparks were from the rock hitting the road! There were crispy burnt edges around the hole of the plywood, too!
The dress…
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The Lewk!
I know, I know! You just saw these same boots in Brandy last week! But, I have to tell you, I love these Leighton boots in Ocean (which is a deep navy blue). It helps that they are as comfortable as they are gorgeous! I went with all blue jewelry, too. This truly is a “Rhapsody in Blue!” The bracelet, both necklaces, and the ring are David Yurman and are very old. They are anniversary, birthday, and Christmas gifts from Nigel. The earrings (holding up the ring) are Lagos.
Wrap it up, Marsha!
I really, really wanted to move that rock with us, but Nigel put his foot down! I knew we wouldn’t be able to move it easily so I caved. We did bring along a rock we had gotten from his now deceased older brother. We call it the brain rock because, well, it looks like a brain! All of the other rocks around our house were gathered at our last neighborhood when they were completing it. So, can we talk? Have you ever wanted something so badly you worked that hard for it? Are you laughing at me or with me right now? What would you have done to move that rock? Please leave me a comment or two, and we can talk. I promise to respond as soon as possible.
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Haha I can see you on that tractor moving the rock! But I totally understand that if you want something that bad, there is no way of stopping! It’s a beautiful dress! Blue is always good isn’t it. Even if you have no idea what to wear, wear blue. Love the lenght too!
Hahaha!!! Thanks, Nancy! I think anyone who saw us probably thought we were crazy for doing that…especially with sparks flying out of the plywood! But, I wanted that rock, and I was going to get it! And, yes, I do love blue in every shade, I think!
Funny tale. Is there a picture of the rock? My neighbour donated some rocks from her garden that she no longer wanted, I have them in a pile at the moment, ready for an inspired project.
Pretty dress BTW.
I don’t have a photo of that rock…well, maybe on an old iPad if I can find it. Maybe I’ll do a whole post on rocks! When we lived up north, one of Mike’s work friends was getting rid of some flagstone. He said we could have as much as we could haul away. We hauled a lot away. I’m sure it’s in some pile on someone’s back field now. The people who bought our house tore down the fence as well as the garden rooms I’d created. They also cut down most of the trees which made me gasp with shock the first time I saw it.
Thanks, Rosie!
I love rocks too and would have done the same thing! Lol! In love with this dress. The dark hues are gorgeous on you!
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Thanks so much, Kathrine! I do love dark navy and jewel tones! Rocks are just one of those things that I love…and trees! But, it’s easier to pick up a few rocks rather than get HOA approval for more trees. I kinda think we’re at our limit now. That’s life in a condo community, I guess.
That dress is soooo pretty. I agree with you that blue never fails! Love the boots as well!
But you have to know I’m all about your rock story. I think your experience at your old property is remarkably similar to ours where we live today. Definitely 100 trees, and lots and lots of stones and rocks. Our first rock adventure was at a park on Lake Niagara. We were at the bottom of a pretty large hill and the littles were skipping stones and walking along the shore. When we saw the beautiful stepping-type stones, Mr started loading up the double stroller with as many as he could fit. (We didn’t know at the time that it wasn’t exactly legal to remove the stones from the water…oops) I remember walking up the hill with a kid under each arm and watching him try to maneuver the overloaded stroller up the hill. What a sight!
I think we continue to make spectacles of ourselves on a regular basis in our yard (and last weekend, powerwashing our house). We should charge for the entertainment, haha.
Hahaha!!!! I love your stories, Em! I would also love your yard…it’s an aspirational thing for me! I miss all my trees though it took probably a month to get rid of all the leaves. The way backyard has no grass to speak of as the shade was so deep. I’d started planting hosta and other shade loving plants back there.
Your Mr sounds a lot like me. Another rock story is the huge river rock we fished out of a river in Tennessee (maybe close to Pigeon Forge back before it became so commercialized). We had that in a flower bed. Unfortunately, when we tried to pick it up, it kinda shattered. It must have had a lot of shale in it because it just split into lots of sections. Now, if I ever come across another large rock in an uninhabited space, I just might have to bring it home and figure out a place to put it!
Thanks, Em!
That is a beautiful dress! I love the colors so much and the style is fabulous for fall. Luckily in our family there are plenty of machines and people to use those machines that moving rocks (and making them smaller!) is kind of what we do.
Thank you so much, Joanne! I really think it will work for three seasons. Ah, I could have used one of your machines or people back then!
Moving a rock…now that’s a story. It would have been even funnier if you did move it to this house. But I’m glad you didn’t. No sense killing yourselves.
The dress is something else. One of those that is perfect for getting you out of the blues.
OXOX
jodie
I’m sure anyone who drove by while we were taking that thing home were just shaking their heads. I often wonder what happened to it because the couple who bought our house tore down the fence and most of the trees. I’m sure that rock is long gone.
I really do love this dress, but I think I could have used a size smaller. Isn’t the color and print gorgeous?
Thanks, Jodie!
That blue boho dress looks amazing on you! I want something like that for myself. And the blue highlights in your hair are so cool!
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Thank you so much, Julie Ann! If you click through the link below my photo, it will take you to the dress. It is really a beautiful dress!
This is a beautiful dress…you look lovely dear 🙂
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Thank you so much, Jyoti!
First things first I love that blue floral dress on you Marsha and the boots are so good. You certainly were determined to take that huge rock home , such determination .
Thank you so much, Jill! These boots are so good! And, yes, I was getting that rock home one way or another!
I admire your determination for getting that rock! I pick up feathers – I have a box full of them from owls, ravens, buzzards and various others. My husband thinks I’m mad! I love your dress, the deep blue looks fabulous on you. Thanks for linking!
Emma xxx
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Thanks, Emma! I was getting that rock home one way or another. I’m just glad we were able to finally get it onto the wood! I hated leaving it behind, but I also knew there was no way to pack it or even get it into the front of the house. Oh, feathers…now that’s a beautiful thing to collect when you think of all the different kinds of birds.